Love yourself. I have heard and read it so many times, but never was able to understand the true meaning of it…
What does it mean to love self?
We say we love ourselves, but then go to the outside world to validate this love. We search for the approval of what we are doing, of who we are. We are so much afraid of not being liked or not being understood. We are never completely free to express who we truly are, to share our message because ‘’what if they will stop liking me’’ is often running our lives.
We go outside to find so needed love, to close the holes in our broken hearts. We are begging for ‘’love me more’’, ‘’give me what is lacking’’. We are asking others to give us secret pills that we hope will heal what aches inside of us. But we are never able to find the one who will repair all our broken parts.
My beautiful friend, you will never completely believe you are loved until you will learn how to love yourself first. No matter how many times you are hearing how beautiful you are, what an amazing person you are; no matter how many likes you have in your social media, you will never believe it until you learn to love and treasure yourself.
You can never build a home for your worth inside of another being! The feeling of lacking will always remain until you will find the way back to your own heart, from which you are separated right now.
You have always been loved! This gentle love is living inside of you. You need nothing outside to prove you are loved. The love you have been so desperately looking for has always been living inside. You have just forgotten the way back home.
Free yourself from the false identity you have created about yourself. Forgive yourself for what is gone, for your past, which no longer defines you. You are so beautiful behind the heavy image you have created and have been attached to for so long.
Allow yourself to feel every emotion. Don’t hide from them…it’s there to tell you something, to say what still needs to be loved inside of you. You are worthy of feeling it all.
Only when you will learn how to love yourself the feeling of emptiness will go away. Only then you will feel complete. Only then you will stop searching for validation.
Learn to love yourself first, unconditionally! Learn to love the parts of yourself, which are ugly. Learn to love your darkness, because without your dark parts you are not complete.
Only when you learn to love yourself first, you can build relationships with others, which will only add love to your whole self. It will be a higher level of love, love, which is not wasted to close unhealed holes within you.
You deserve only love. It is yours! It never stops, you have an unlimited source of it inside of you at all the times.
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