Why do we keep on reliving same relationships patterns?

Episode highlights:

• We unconsciously gravitate towards partners that we find familiar, who cause us to feel the same type of emotions. Subconsciously somebody who will appear to be outside of our ‘’type’’ we will find unattractive. It’s becoming our subconscious habit. ‘’Good guy’’ or ‘’Good girl’’ might be not that boring at the end:) 
• Same types of relationships make us to relive the same type of emotions over and over again. We are becoming addicted to them. Being unaware of it we attract the same type of relationships to get a bit more of the same drug 
• Often the roots of our relationships patterns lie in our childhood. We replicate the relationship our parent had between themselves or the relationship we had with one of our parents 
• Our relationships, especially, the most difficult ones are our greatest gifts. They show us what do we need to heal, accept and love more about ourselves 
• Our partners only triggers in us what we have incomplete about ourselves
•  It’s our body, unconscious, who chooses our romantic partners, because it knows what within us need to be healed and who can help to bring it to the surface. Our mind will judge our choices 
• We tend to bring our unresolved issues from the past in the new relationships. We see ‘’ex’’ traits in a person who has nothing in common with our ‘’ex’’. We bring our old programming to new relationships. Unaware, we always want to validate our story about the relationship is true 
• Having incomplete parts about ourselves, we behave as an upset child, we bring our ‘’hurt’’ in the relationships. Our partners do the same. Create ‘’safe’’ environment and allow your partner to go through his/her own experience to complete what he/she needs to complete. All we want is to share openly in a safe environment 
• The greatest healer is to feel everything. Many of us find distractions not to do so (alcohol, sex, parties, working extra hard…you name it), recreating same patterns, same experiences 
• Pain is not a bad thing, but part of the healing process, agent of change 
• The more you learn to love yourself, the better relationships you will attract